8/29/2012

Meet the Cast: Meet Stacey!

What’s your name?

Stacey Sargeant

Where are you from?

Brooklyn, New York

What do you do for a living?

I am an actress, singer, dancer and most recently, a filmmaker.

How did we rope you into be a part of Black Folk Don’t?

One my good friends told me you were having a difficult time finding people who would talk about eating disorders, knew I created a film about that very subject, and asked if I would like to participate.

What are some things that Black Folk Do that surprise most people?

We eat hummus. My brother’s allergic to watermelon. We are not ALL Christian. We don’t ALL go to church. We don’t ALL sing/know how to dance. We don’t ALL watch BET or listen to gangsta rap.

After you left the interview, was there anything you wish you had said? Not said?

Honestly, I can’t remember as the interview was a while ago.

The moment you realized you were Black.

I remember my parents telling me that when I was a little girl and learned my colors I kept repeating, “I’m not black, I’m brown.” However, I think I learned what it meant to be “Black” in this country on a family vacation to Florida when I was about 7yrs. old. We drove from NY, stopped for gas in GA, and I had to use the bathroom. The attendant said there was a bathroom inside. When my dad and I tried to go inside, we were greeted at the door by an old white woman and her shotgun saying, “Oh, the bathroom…? It’s outta wada.”

One stereotype about Black people that frustrates you.

That we are all looking to steal when we walk into a store. Can we shop in peace PUH-LEEEEEEZE?!?!

Here’s your chance to blatantly promote yourself or something you care about.

Visit www.thoughimnotperfect.com to learn about my award-winning documentary short, Though I’m Not Perfect, which exposes the physical and psychological dangers of the ballet world to young girls by explaining how teachers impact dreams by promoting certain body types.

7/4/2012

Meet the Cast: Meet Serina!

What’s your name?

Serina Phoenix

Where are you from?

New Orleans, Louisiana

What do you do for a living?

I am the Executive Assistant to the Vice Chairman of the Board of a bank.  In my spare time I’m a marketer and event planner.

How did we rope you into be a part of Black Folk Don’t?

One my best friends was featured in the first season and asked if I would like to participate.

What are some things that Black Folk Do that surprise most people?

We are familiar with and are fans of music outside of r&b and rap (example: I went to Coachella this year with 5 other black people.) We live in the suburbs. We attend predominantly caucasian colleges and universities.  Most people are surprised that I’m 27 and don’t have children.

After you left the interview, was there anything you wish you had said? Not said?

Honestly, I can’t remember.  I don’t think so.  But I’m sure the discussions could have continued on forever.

The moment you realized you were Black.

Oh geez. I grew up in a relatively diverse environment, so I was aware of race and color early on. I think the moment I really realized I was black is when I transferred to a predominantly African American elementary school in 3rd grade.  Most people would probably think it would be the other way around.  I’m pretty sure I’ve always known I was black.  But, for some reason, this new school just made it blatantly obvious.

One stereotype about Black people that frustrates you.

Just one? One that has always frustrated me is the theory that if we speak proper english and are mild mannered then we’re uppity.

Here’s your chance to blatantly promote yourself or something you care about.

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be a part of such a great project.  Follow me on twitter @serinaphx to check out everything (a lot) I’m involved in and care about.

8/30/2011

Meet the Cast: Meet Lauren!


What’s your name?
L. J. Domino

Where are you from?
New Orleans

What do you do for a living?
Film Programmer / Event Manager

How did we rope you into be a part of Black Folk Don’t?
That Tucker Gurl is a friend.

What are some things that Black Folk Do that surprise most people?

Lately I’ve been getting a surprised reaction when people find out I’m a black Catholic. I thought this was a common place thing but people have reacted like I’ve said I’m a black Republican.

After you left the interview, was there anything you wish you had said? Not said?
I wished I didn’t say most of the things I said, my grandma will watch this!

The moment you realized you were Black.

I don’t think I had to quote Oprah an ‘Aha moment” with my blackness.

One stereotype about Black people that frustrates you.
This is a stereotype that mostly comes from the black community, because of the way I speak I’ve been told constantly I’m trying to be white. It’s frustrating, annoying and sad.

Here’s your chance to blatantly promote yourself or something you care about.

I’m the Program Manager for Media That Matters™, our eleventh collection of short films launches on October 27 in New York. Visit our website for more details.

Director's Notes: Black Folk Don’t Go To The Doctor

An American Academy of Family Physicians survey found that 45 percent of men between ages 18 and 50 don’t have a primary care physician, and 40 percent of men in their 40s have never even had their cholesterol tested. That same survey found that more than half of men—55 percent—hadn’t seen their M.D. in the previous year.

When statistics like the ones above are mentioned, some (narrow minded) people think that they are simply another way that black people don’t know how to take care of themselves. I really wanted to show people that there is a historical reason why some black people don’t go to the doctor. Though this is changing, history is often ignored when looking at modern behavior.

Crystal’s experience in the episode really resonated with me. My father refused to go to the doctor. He had great insurance because he worked for the city but he grew up in the Deep South during the great depression. He had a deep distrust of the medical industry because of the racism he experienced as a child. My brother and I pushed him to get past it but it was uphill battle.

I want to thank everyone in this episode for their honestly. Some very personal stories are shared and I feel humbled that they were willing to speak so openly. Hope you all enjoy it and don’t forget to write to let us know what you think!

Director's Notes: Black Folk Don’t Do Winter Sports

My friend is a big snowboarder. She is black. When I first told her about this web series, she insisted that I do an episode about winter sports. When she mentioned this idea, I was skeptical mainly because I had some friends who skied. I told her that I would be open to the idea, knowing deep down inside that I wasn’t really open to the idea.

Then, I did the interviews with people on street. Almost every single person I spoke to, when asked to give their own “black folk don’ts” said black folk don’t ski. It was pretty remarkable. Now I am in New York City so possibly the answer might be different in Denver or Chicago but black folk don’t ski was by far the number one choice of people on the street.

We decided to expand the topic to winter sports partially because people would say ski or snowboard and clearly these two things are not the same. Also, by having the episode focus on winter sports, we could open up the conversation to discuss African Americans and sports in a more general way. Sports are a major part of our identity and the commodification of sports had both helped us and hurt us. (We don’t go that deep into it but we do go there a little bit.)

So I hope you enjoy this episode and, as usual, feel free to comment on our Facebook page or via Twitter @blackfolkdont.

8/23/2011

Meet the Cast: Meet Brittany!

What’s your name?

Brittney Taylor a.k.a. Marvel Nikel

Where are you from?

Mount Vernon, NY

What do you do for a living?

I recently retired from being a student (which really means I just graduated from grad school and am still in search of a full-time job).

How did we rope you into be a part of Black Folk Don’t?

I like Black folk! And I feel a little iffy about stereotypes (some of them at least) so I thought it might be cool. Plus who wouldn’t want to contribute to a documentary about Black folks.

What are some things that Black Folk Do that surprise most people?

Ummm, some of us have never gone to jail. We can succeed in school. Some of us do go to jail, but are actually intelligent anyway.

After you left the interview, was there anything you wish you had said? Not said?

Nothing in particular, but it got me thinking: Stereotypes are risky business. If people are decent they verbalize them only amongst friends who already understand that they are just making generalizations and that they do not believe the stereotype to be true of everyone who is generalized about, or even most of them. However, I revealed stereotypes to strangers, who were recording me at that. So I hope I didn’t come off as a jerk.

The moment you realized you were Black.

I found out what black really meant when I was very young. I was very into coloring and had all the Crayola colors. So I proceeded to ask my mother, who is black but light skinned, what color she was because I know people around us were called “black”, but she was too light to be “black”. I asked if she was peach, burnt sienna, beige, etc. but then she explained to me that we were all just black and that label had very little to do with actual skin color.

One stereotype about Black people that frustrates you?

This one comes from both sides of the fence (i.e. from blacks and non-blacks), that black people aren’t intelligent. I hate being told I’m really smart (like its surprise) or I speak white, or whatever (I got this a lot more when I was younger, like in high school). And I also hate when people (all types of people, but I’m mostly talking about non-blacks here) are overwhelmingly impressed by the schools I’ve gone to. It makes it seem like there’s a cap on “Normal” black intelligence, and that is just utterly not true.

Here’s your chance to blatantly promote yourself or something you care about.

Ooo, I have blogs! If you go to MarvelNikel.tumblr.com you’ll find links to all my different blogs.

8/17/2011

Meet the Cast: Meet Crystal!

Crystal on set

 Crystal “DJ Crystal Clear” Durant

Where are you from?

Born and raised in Allentown, Pennsylvania – and lived in Philly, Hollywood, California, and have been a New Yorker for 16 years!

What do you do for a living?

I am a Graphic Designer/Art Educator/DJ/Singer/Screen Printer, and much more than meets the eye!

How did we rope you into be a part of Black Folk Don’t?

I responded to a VERY INTERESTING Craigslist post while looking for a new Visual Art Teaching job. Angela is a fabulous person, and I knew that while talking to her, I wanted in!

What are some things that Black Folk Do that surprise most people?

That Black Folk ACTUALLY DO?  Hmmm.  I usually get lots of weird stares when I tell people that I was a lifeguard and swimming instructor once.  Probably because they know how Black Women are about their hair – but I did that in High School when it wasn’t a big deal.

Little Crystal and her family

I won’t know that until I see the entire series, but I have very few regrets in life.

The moment you realized you were Black.

I grew up in an all white area of Allentown in the late 60′s, early 70′s.  So probably when we were getting bomb threats and crosses burned on our lawn, or when the township wouldn’t let us get water – pretty much since birth! 

One stereotype about Black people that frustrates you/

That just about all Black women have multiple kids by multiple men.  Mostly because I’m in my 40′s, never married, and single – so when I go out with Black men (which isn’t often) THAT’S usually the FIRST question I’m asked.  AND BECAUSE I DON’T have any kids, they look at me like I’m crazy!  Ain’t THAT some shit?

As an Arts Educator for the past 15 years, and having experienced the horrors of NYC public education that just about killed me, I’m on a mission to ring a loud bell and wake people up to the fact that our society is DOOMED and will continue to be that way until people REALLY START CARING ABOUT PUBLIC EDUCATION and STOP BLAMING TEACHERS for how bad it is.  I dare you to come and do what I do and not change your thinking. 

Here’s your chance to blatantly promote yourself or something you care about. 

I’m a Pop Culture Demolition Specialist at the website FORCES OF GEEK where I have a biweekly blog called The DuRANT.  I’ve been blasting on Movies, TV, Film, Fashion, you name it for a few years now.  Check me out and feel free to leave comments on my RANTS!

If you need a KICK-ASS DJ or singer, give me a shout at DJCrystalClear@me.com!

Director's Notes: Black Folk Don’t Travel

When we were deciding episodes, I was invited to show a film at a festival in Olomouc, in the Czech Republic. I love to travel so if you are buying my ticket, I will go … anywhere! Everyone was really nice there and I had a great time. But I was shocked by how retro the experience was. Not only were there no dark people of any kind in this town (and I looked), but also people’s reaction to me was as if they had never seen a black person up close. People were fascinated by my hair, my skin. It was a little crazy to be exoticized in this way.

Knowing that Prague is one of the world’s biggest tourist cities. I decided to make a concerted effort to stop there and get a fuller picture of the Czech Republic. I decided to look for other Black tourists to interview for the series. (The beauty of a HD Flip camera) As I looked around, I saw a total of three people, amongst hundreds and hundreds of tourists. I was fascinated why there were so few people.

Many people disagreed with this episode so I thought it was important to show that in the answers we included. Travel is complicated because it is a socio-economic issue. Still I do think that the experience I had on this trip was reflective of an experience that many other people have had in their travels, especially throughout certain areas in Europe.

What do you think? Watch the episode and comment. Or let your thoughts be know on Twitter @blackfolkdont.

Director's Notes: Black Folk Don’t Go To Therapy

This episode is one that I wanted to do because I thought it was important. It wasn’t one that leaped to mind for people. However, when I interviewed people about therapy they all agreed that there is a big stigma in the black community around it.

This episode is important for me because I have had a lot of experience with therapy. My mother had bipolar disorder and I spent most of my life in a therapist’s office. My mother was in therapy twice a week and my parents eventually had me go to therapy to cope with her being in therapy. When I tell people this, they immediately feel sorry for me. Yes my mother’s mental illness took a toll on our family but being in therapy felt really normal. It was a part of my life and I knew that my mother was at her best when she was talking to someone about her problems. I, myself, liked having someone to talk to that wasn’t a relative or a friend about my inner thoughts. (Plus, my therapist had a really good hot chocolate recipe that I still have not been able to replicate to this day.) I know that being exposed to therapy that young has had a profound effect on me and I know that I am a stronger person for it.

Still, I always had a sense that I wasn’t supposed to talk to people about our family being in therapy. Growing up in a predominantly white neighborhood in New York, I understood that it was very, very important for everyone to believe that our family was just a happy go lucky family. This was very difficult for us to keep up, very difficult.

I know that there is a stigma around therapy in general and that this stigma is not tied to being Black per say. Notwithstanding I do think the stigma in the black community is a very specific phenomena that I was interested in having people talk about. Everyone we interviewed agreed that black folk don’t go to therapy and the reasons are very complex. Though many of the people we interviewed had gone to therapy themselves, they still had people in their lives that they didn’t feel comfortable sharing this information with.

We want you to share all of the episodes but make a special effort to share this one with anyone you think might appreciate it.

8/9/2011

Meet the Cast: Meet Tricia!

Tricia Nelson @GraceOfGroove

What’s your name?

Tricia Nelson

Where are you from?

I was born and raised in NY, the product of a large and close-knit Guyanese-American family. I’ve spent the last 15 years blissfully living in Los Angeles.

What do you do for a living?

I work in digital media, usually on the content (editorial) side.

How did we rope you into be a part of Black Folk Don’t?

A friend sent me the info, and I was intrigued.

What are some things that Black Folk Do that surprise most people?

Black folks go to the ballet/opera/symphony; love foreign and classic films (and occasionally have crushes on silver foxes like Robert Osborne); can be addicted to NPR; listen to Howard Stern; do triathlons.

After you left the interview, was there anything you wish you had said? Not said?

I left the interview hoping I’d elevated the conversation but fearing I was just all quirks and exaggerated mannerisms.

Aviator Trish

The moment you realized you were Black.

Seventh grade. I went from 99% minority elementary and middle schools and an enrichment program for students of color (the fantastic Prep for Prep) to being the only black girl in my entire grade (and the only one ever in that class) at a private school for girls in NYC. Seventh grade — the year we read To Kill a Mockingbird and learned about apartheid. Ouch.

One stereotype about Black people that frustrates you.

In general, I’m frustrated whenever I hear definitive “black people do/don’t…” statements from people who have one or two token black “friends,” or better yet, people who feel their indirect dealings with African-Americans — be it chatting up the local barista, working with a guy two cubicles over, two seasons of watching Chappelle’s Show or having downloaded the latest Jay-Z track on their iTunes — make them experts on “the blacks.” We are a complicated lot; we are not a monolith.

Here’s your chance to blatantly promote yourself or something you care about.

Tweet me @graceofgroove, and stay tuned for my novel!

8/2/2011

Meet the Cast: Meet Baratunde Thurston!

Baratunde Thurston

What’s your name?

Baratunde Thurston

Where are you from?

Born and raised in DC. Lived in Boston for 12 years. Escaped. Now reside in Brooklyn.

What do you do for a living?

I’m a politically-active, technology-loving comedian from the future.

How did we rope you into be a part of Black Folk Don’t?

I guess I’m a bit of an expert. I’ve been black for over 30 years.

What are some things that Black Folk Do that surprise most people?

If it’s not in a popular song or TV show and black folks are doing it, that’s probably a surprise to a good number of people.

The moment you realized you were Black.

It was a clear black night, a clear white moon. Warren G was on the streets, trying to consume– just kidding. It was actually cloudy that day. I was in kindergarten and had a crush on a little white girl. I knew we were of different races, at least subconsciously, because I would sing “Ebony & Ivory” across the playground at her.

One stereotype about Black people that frustrates you.

That we’re all amazing dancers. I mean, I actually am an amazing dancer, but it just doesn’t seem fair that millions of people are expected to live up to this music video standard. The president is a terrible dancer, but he’s still black!

Here’s your chance to blatantly promote yourself or something you care about. 

I have written a book called How To Be Black (Buy on Amazon). It comes out Jan 31 from Harper Collins. It’s going to be pretty ridiculous and amazing, and anyone interested in your Black Folk Don’t project will want to purchase several copies in various formats, all on January 31, which is the day it comes out. My book, that is. How To Be Black.

Director's Notes: Why Don’t Black Folk Tip?

I decided to begin the series with the episode that inspired me to do the series in the first place. Here’s what happened.

One day I was having a conversation with a group of black woman of various ages. The older black woman was telling us about a massage she had just gotten that sounded pretty stressful. The woman commented that her masseuse had “cut her a look”. She was pissed.

After getting all of the details, it didn’t add up. It sounded like the masseuse had done a good job. Then I asked, “Did you tip her?”

“Yeah, I gave her $10.”

Now, this woman had gotten over $200 of work done. (She was about six feet tall so this was no feat.)

The other women didn’t say anything but I knew they were thinking what I was thinking. This woman was mad at you because you tipped her too little.

I worked up the courage to explain to her that people typically pay around 20% tip for that kind of work. She looked at me incredulously. It was clear she had no idea. She wouldn’t fess up that it though. She just grumbled about bad manners. Bad manners yes but we all knew where that masseuse was coming from.

Most people I know that work in the service industry believe that black folk don’t tip. If you engage them in conversation, off the record, they will agree. So I was curious to see how other black people would respond to that. As you can see, some people agree and some people disagree.

What clinched the decision to make this episode was when my favorite comedian, Louis C.K., included a bit about black people not tipping in his fantastic series, Louie, on FX. I knew it had to be included in the episode. This scene really encapsulated the debate here. Louie called the white waitress racist for saying that black people don’t tip. He is almost superior about it, righting a wrong. When the black waitress corroborates the white waitress’ statement, it brings home the idea that there is a big difference between having a negative opinion of a black person (or people) and being racist.

What Do You Think?

Director's Notes: How “Black Folk Don’t…” Came To Be

On the set with Black Folk Don't series creator Angela Tucker

First, I am black. You might not know that so let me begin my introduction that way. It might matter to you. It might not. But I thought I’d begin there.

A good number of Black people have heard it in some colloquial way. “Black folk don’t …” add your own phrase. Who defines this? That is complicated and complex but worth an attempt at an explanation. In some cases, “Black folks don’t” is a statistical fact. Black folk don’t go to the doctor in the numbers they should.

In other cases, “Black folk don’t” is an anecdotal idea and concept that is based on a negative stereotype. However, stereotypes are based in truth and in some cases, these ideas are true about Black folk. Ask any waiter. Black folk don’t tip. It’s just true. But Black folk do tip their hairdressers or barbers so go figure.

I approached Black Public Media with six potential episodes. At first, we were going to reach out to people via social networks to vote on the episodes. But then I decided to do it the old fashioned way. We polled people on the streets. (I am old fashioned and really enjoy face to face conversations. I highly recommend talking to strangers about this kind of topic. It is fascinating.) From those conversations, we came up with a new list of episodes. When every single person you interview says the same thing, even if you don’t necessarily agree, it inspires you to change your list. So we did. That was a really exciting part of the process.

In the end, no one is an expert on “being black” so my Production Manager and I decided not to kill ourselves trying to book Cornel West. Instead, we reached out to people that had original points of views and were articulate. (I mean articulate in a, “You can be vocal and concise about your ideas.” kind of way, not in a “You sound so smart for a black person.” kind of way.) Essentially we chose people who were either our friends or who seemed like they could be.

We filmed the exterior interviews in Fort Greene, Brooklyn and Harlem. The studio interviews were at a yoga studio, Kula Yoga Project to be exact. (I used to work there so I got the hook up.) We shot on the Canon 5D and 7D with fancy lenses. (I can’t tell you which ones – shout out to our amazing DPs Shawn Peters and Eliana Alvarez Martinez — but there are many, many websites devoted to teaching you how to make the Canon look as pretty as possible.) I wanted to use these cameras because I think they make black skin look really beautiful.

So why no one of other races in the series, particularly white people? Well, there are some people who are Latino in the series. A big topic of discussion in the interviews was this question of what is black? Some people see it as a cultural identity and some see it as a color of your skin kind of thing. Each person had their own take on this. Anyway, I have two answers to this. One, would you want to be the white person commenting on what black folk don’t do on a web series? But seriously, the conversation happening amongst the interviewees  is meant to feel like a conversation that you would have amongst friends or family. We welcome discussion from people of all races but that was the initial intent. (There were people of all races on the crew and I might make them talk about their experiences in a blog entry coming soon.)

I worked with my editor, Michelle Chang, long and hard to cut the episodes. There were several long conversations. Michelle is someone who challenges me a lot, in a good way. These are many complicated ideas here, which required a lot of thought and debate. I will admit that I underestimated that but we’re happy with the result. No idea was just put out there without thinking about what we are saying and what this means. We hope you like it or at the very least, we hope it sparks some kind of conversation.